<SIGH> Yet another day in class, today we worked on Power Point Presentations... WOW SOOOO HARD!, Man I've been doing slide show presentations sense I was in 5th Grade! Oh well, Easy is, Easy Goes!
I feel bad, I yelled at Jandy today, I was a little frustraighted and we had to have a long talk. I hope now she understands, Sometimes she can frustraight me and I know that sometimes I can frustraight her, anyway I'm sorry for yelling at you punkin, I love you very much.
I got frustrighted because I was at work and she was mad at me cuz I said I would be coming home around 2:30... She called right at 2:30 and was upset cuz I was still there. I understand her excitement to see me come home, and I feel the same excitement when I get to come to her, but still I need to work, and I need to make money! Expessialy sense she doesn't have a job anymore, and Neither will I soon. Babe, I really need you to be more patient with me. Anyway, We, err... Should I say I talked it over with her (She just kinda listened :) ) and I explained my frustraightion.
I think its very important for people to sit down in a relationship and discuss frustraightions. Help the couple grow independently as well as together.
Here is a list of things people in relationsships should do when feeling a little frustraighted and their signifiicant other.
TOP 10
1. Breathe (Don't need anybody passing out now)
2. Count to 10, or better yet... 10000000 if nessicary.. Never attempt to discuss anything with anybody until both sides are able to have a reasonable discussion.
3. Continuing on part 2, Make sure you use I statements, this will help in keeping the arguing to a minimum. Example. I feel frustraigted when ... or I would appreciate it alot if you could help me clean MORE around the house. What this will do is not seem so aggressive to the person hearing it so they won't be able to defend or argue or apose so much. nobody can change your feelings... They're not theres....
4. Try and keep good eye contact, (Big petpieve of mine) This is important cuz it make both sides feel like they're talking to you, not to the air.
5. Attempt to remain neutral, If both sides remain neutral then it helps #2 and 3
6. I'm running out of pointers to make it to 10, so I'll post more on it later!
Let me remind you I am no love doctor by all means. But, I can just tell you what has worked for me in the past. You might be saying Wow he must have had alot of GF's... Nope, not really, just a couple that have lasted a long time.
7. I got another before I forget, Don't bottle things up... Don't need anybody exploding!
So anyway, school was pretty boring today but good. Next Tuesday is the last day of class and that will be totally cool. Anyway my hand is tired, and I'll try and post some more tommarow or something... Later guys and gals! | 
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